Stand the fuck up already man! We can SEE your defeat.

The Toxic Mock, Shallow Solutions and Fake Short Cuts will NEVER replace real intimacy. It will only ever serve to further inhibit your sense of freedom until you are a crushed man.

Please stand up!
We can SEE your defeat.
You aren’t fooling anyone!
You are marking yourself as a target for manipulation.
Your collapsed or ridged embodiment just isn’t faith inspiring.
We want to follow your loving leadership,
but we can see you don’t have faith in your capacity to provide this even to yourself. 

charlie brown depressed stance color

It the cartoon image here you see how even when he attempts to straighten up his head is still not on top of his spine? He would be easily pushed over.

Charlie Brown is the ultimate Push Over character in our pop culture. When an illustrator or a movie casting director wants to instantly convey a defeated man to the audience, he will choose a man that has his chest caved in, shoulders rounded around his heart and head protruding forward. 

When a high value female encounters a man with a crush/collapsed embodiment she will not choose him as her sex partner. Oh she may marry him and take his financial provision but she will never choose him as a man that is capable of opening her fully to her own body’s potential. She can’t trust a man that isn’t even in his own body presence, to be in hers with presence. Of course she can’t. 

When first working with these crushed men I find they will over compensate and tip themselves backward just like Charlie Brown is doing in cell 3. He can’t function like that, of course and he can’t find balance on his own, so an embodiment coach is vital to his process of re-claiming his masculinity. 

The body has to obey the mind, which obeys the emotional charge of the Central Nervous System.

If you want more on this you can read more about the Core Presence Embodiment Therapy (CPET) and the Sensation Awareness Practices I use in every coaching session by clicking here to enroll for FREE >>> E-Course for Motivated Men

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The Toxic Mock – Hiring prostitutes/escorts,  getting hand job massage, having a sugar baby, being in marriage where a man settles for obligatory, wifely duty sex banging drunk party girls

Shallow Solutions – anything resulting from the thought “to spice up our relationship” or that is in Cosmo magazine, porn sex toys, lingerie, swinging, couples massage, taking a trip,having another baby going through the motions of marriage counseling, making deals for sex.

Fake Short Cuts – Studying Pick up Artist (PUA) materials, reading books with tips to follow,  pop culture for sale “tantra’, doing every self help or dating seminar you can fit in your schedule, joining two million meetup groups on relationship success, Speed Dating and Singles Mixers, Online Dating sites, picking a system that “guarantees success” and obsessively doing that like a crash diet, joining a religious group or cult..

Michelle Terrell has been a health and wellness coach since 1995. In those years she collected data and the real life testimonials of thousands of good men who were feeling lost and confused in their love lives. Her workshop students dubbed her The Pistol Whip Hippie because her teaching/coaching style is irreverent, in your face and radically honest (the Pistol Whip part) with the follow up being supportive, nurturing awakened energy (the Hippie part) that inspires men to strive to be their very best.

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