Multi Girlfriend Skills that Translate to Prosperous Living

Multi Girlfriend Skills that Translate to Prosperous Living

There are 4 skills vital to business and long term relationship success a man can learn from managing several girlfriends at once. Yep, you heard me correctly and I have more to say on the matter too, so keep reading and try not to get your moralistic panties in a bunch. 

Whether he ever has many girlfriends at one time or not,  the fact remains that the skills he acquires when he succeeds in maintaining great rapport with multiple girlfriends are the same as what every great CEO and happy husband knows. 

Now, how to actually pull this off, without drama, is a story for another day or private coaching but right now, I want you to consider the skill sets themselves and why they will be sharpened by managing several girlfriends at once, like no other avenue for learning can provide.

My educated position, after being privy to the insider view of the lives of men that were successful in all these areas of life, through a 20+ year career coaching men to personal greatness and as a facilitator of rehab for relationships in passion decline, is:

Life with women, will always provide men their most epic refining challenges and growth opportunities.

It stands to reason then, that a well informed man’s learning curve would increase expediently the more women he has around, if he is consciously awake in those interactions. 

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Here are the 4 main skills all successful men master that are available in a unique learning experience to men that date and build meaningful friendships with many women at once:

#1 Time Management (powerful men are deliberate men)

#2 Honest communication with self and others. (gotta love em all the same or cut em loose)

#3 Ability to discern between exercising discretion and being secretive (no double living)

#4 Wise with distribution of resources (your attention is your most valuable resource)   

In order to fully wrap you head around what I am saying here you must first acknowledge that it is simply a truth of attraction that… whoever is the most attractive in the relationship is in charge.

So, what does attractive mean? It means whoever brings the most perceived value, holds the most personal authority and sense of entitlement to having their needs met, gains the the veto power.

Hopefully, this sense if value and influence with the other is mutual, thus a healthy play of balance between the parties involved can be maintained, no matter what type of relationship arrangement it is.

In a sexual relationship, it is especially important that one person isn’t lording power over the other, if things are to go well, and foster a long term potential for on-going sexy.

If one or the other person feels his or her value is greater or less than the other over a period of time, this is dysfunctional and that is not what I mean by being attractive. Nor is that what it means to be successful in life and love.

It is also true that…

Men, at their core, are designed to lead with their desire, and women are designed to desire guidance from high quality men. Women seek loving leadership she can give her all to without reservation.

An attractive man will captivate and hold the sexual potency with his woman. In other words, his woman is consistently motivated internally to be in a state of desire, to be led by him, but only if her man is a very deliberate and respectable to her sense of what is valuable.

At a base level, all woman respond to the same thing and in a refined union, the match happens beyond those core female basic needs. But never with out those being met first.

Men that have real charisma and the SKILL SET to have a harem (even if they never actually run one), but are CHOOSING to be with one special girl, are considered the most attractive, powerful, and sought after, thus THEY always hold the sexual attention of their women.


The skill set a man needs to be successful in a committed long term relationship can be learned through successful management of several women at once or a string of relationships, but only if he is aware and actively awake in what he is learning and why.

This multi girlfriend skill set is the EXACT skills (plus a few) he will need to navigate his way successfully through a long term relationship with one special girl.

When I say success, I mean he will know how to build rather than kill attraction over a lifetime, which translates to:

*enthusiastic sex with a high natural repeat rate

* able to activate a woman as an enthusiastic (not obligatory nor dull) sex partner

* being a master of time management

* naturally leading with loving intent as a lifestyle, which creates abundance vs. lack

* be unflappable when faced with female mellow drama (test passing)

* becomes solid in his sense of personal value

* has direct experience with being very deliberate with his attention and experience that works like catnip or kryptonite to any and all women

* masters his ability to give over energy only to those that meet his standards, thus he is never drained and has reserves left over for the important things

* embodies true confidence in his very being and work life

* holds himself in high esteem, as do his male peers

* women respect him, are naturally loyal to him and lend him their gifts to his success, out of their own internal motivation.

* his life is full of charm and depth


A high quality man lives his life in alignment with the skills he will need to have many girlfriends at once, or over a lifetime, even if he chooses to be with just one special girl forever.

To be frank, the dude that doesn’t take the time to developed these skills BEFORE he gets into a long term relationship…well, to put it delicately, that dude is fucked…. and not in the good way.

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Michelle Terrell has been a health and wellness coach since 1995. In those years she collected data and the real life testimonials of thousands of good men who were feeling lost and confused in their love lives. Her workshop students dubbed her The Pistol Whip Hippie because her teaching/coaching style is irreverent, in your face and radically honest (the Pistol Whip part) with the follow up being supportive, nurturing awakened energy (the Hippie part) that inspires men to strive to be their very best.

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