Men Lead, Even When They Don’t

If you are the only human in the room that has a penis, guess what, you get first dibs on energetically setting the tone and direction of the room, whether to want to or not.

Its just how it works energetically speaking. Its a polarity and a primal drive hard-wiring thing. It just is.

If you defer your opportunity to hold space with personal authority, you are still leading the room, just toward another more confident masculine authority, which can be a woman.

The most capable or sometimes simply the most overt masculine energy, will always lead the room.

So the question for any evolving man is, are you leading from a consciously awake place of well examined core-values or are you deferring your authority?

Are you missing out on opportunities to build self respect and garner high quality influence and loyalty, especially with female love interests?

The masculine in all of us, thrives on respect and the feminine in all of us thrives on stability. If we aren’t consciously working with this, then the sub conscious and the practical need of the situation will take over leadership.

In a love interest context, if he leads her, not deeper into her own sexual openness and self discovery, but to constantly having to stand in her masculine in the relationship this is a set up for failure.

There will be a passion and spirit dampening dynamic that is set in motion. Deferment of leadership always leads to natural decline in a healthy attraction balance in a relationship.

This polarity dynamic holds true with all interactions a man has with men or women, all day long.

The conscious, evolving man devotes himself to learning to embody heart-open strong personal authority. This is the way of the evolving man. He seeks to impact the world and women in a potent, wise and loving way.

Men please choose to lead wide awake. The world needs you more than ever and inspired women want to feel good about devoting their gifts and graces to you.

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Michelle Terrell has been a health and wellness coach since 1995. In those years she collected data and the real life testimonials of thousands of good men who were feeling lost and confused in their love lives. Her workshop students dubbed her The Pistol Whip Hippie because her teaching/coaching style is irreverent, in your face and radically honest (the Pistol Whip part) with the follow up being supportive, nurturing awakened energy (the Hippie part) that inspires men to strive to be their very best.