Going through a divorce is one of the most painful, stressful experiences that you will ever have, even when it also brings relief and much-needed space to grow.
Much like grieving the loss of a loved one, navigating a divorce can often feel like a death that must be grieved, as it severs not only a relationship arrangement but family connections and the dream of a love that you once thought would last forever, that you must completely emotionally rearrange and mentally accept.
And while the process is stressful and often expensive, once the paperwork is officially signed, you’re challenged with the task of building your life again.
Now you must figure out how you’ll spend your solo time to making new life goals for yourself, who you become post-divorce should be a much better version of who you were in an unhappy marriage and you will then need to learn how to attract a completely different type of date and a potential new mate.
When you start to consider dating again, it won’t take long to realize that it’s not quite how it used to be.
For many, the hardest part of dating post-divorce is understanding the current way of dating. Many of my clients haven’t dated in over 20 years, the times have changed, so have you and the societal norms for a modern mating dance have shifted.
This can be very stressful for someone back on the dating scene. However, it’s a perfect growth opportunity, to seek out conversations with those in a like situation who are also back to navigating the dating world and learning new ideas or approaches to dating.
If you find yourself interested in getting back into the game and putting yourself out there, allow me to share helpful coaching insights and group support to give you a fighting chance of moving on in the healthiest, easiest way and finding love that is a more ideal match next time around.
Ready to create a positive, realistic starting point?
Let’s talk about what that will take.
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Text Michelle @ (480) 471-8987