Did you know that the intense bio chemical flood that happens in the brain when we fall in love is EXACTLY the same as the chemical reaction that takes place when we fear break up loss and experience rejection triggers in our relationships?
No wonder it is such a uniquely consuming and painful thing to face being lonely and affection starved with in a relationship. There is no more lonely kind of lonely than that.
This is why many people have affairs, use porn, massage parlors and rebound into another entanglement right away to try to medicate the pain with distraction and avoidance.
It hurts like hell and its complicated to get out of or repair when you don’t have the skills to navigate the end or rebirth of a love/sex realtionship.
What I now after 20 years helping men mitigate fall out and find their rational footing is that if you can’t recover the passion then you at least want peace of mind you truly did ALL you could.
This is why so many new clients are in crisis mode when they find me.
Often they don’t even realize they are, so a combination of patient attentiveness and heart-open connection with clear goals toward recovery is required.
Ready to start healing?
Lets talk about what that will take.
I am now offering a FREE 15 Phone Coaching Session
This is so you and I can check in on where you are in your healing process and start to dial up a personalized game plan for your well being. Our work together will set you free of the hurt and empower you to get on with a better life through the lessons available through this challenging break up experience.
To request a FREE phone consult fill out the new client form >>>
YES, I want to speak with Michelle
In that first phone call new clients are often…..
* filtering things through their past fear and pain, so just referring them along
to my resources would feel like a rude brush off to them.
I honor this and take the time to have a real conversation instead.
* they can project onto me what they wish I was or what negative things they have
experienced before. It’s ok, this is just part of the natural healing process.
* they can’t see or hear what I am because they have been burned before so they carry
an honestly-come-by suspicious (esp of women) energy or don’t trust their own gut
so they can’t determine what-is-what anymore.
All of this is expected and part of the process as we find our way to partnering toward a break through.
Your questions may be tentative “What happens in the session?” Your fear may escualte your need for guarantees,
even if false but your broken heart hurt is all I hear. It is coming through loud and clear. I knwo what you need to heal. I am the queen of tough love re-direction, so we WILL break through!
Of course, there is no way I could verbally walk you through a session step-by-step because each one is so unique and based on the individual sitting across from me.
Every session draws from many aspects of my 10 years of earning college degrees, my 16 years as a mind/body practitioner specializing in trauma/anxiety healing and my 20 years actively listening to men and being purposefully responsive to what these brave told me, in a professional coaching capacity.
So how do I encapsulate all of that?
So instead here is a list of the type clients I attract, the concerns they show up with
and the services I provide them to quiet their fear, clear up their confusion
and ease their suffering.
Where do you fit?
#1 Recently Divorced Men that are blocked due to fear of making the same mis-steps with women again that only lead to confusion, loss and feeling of failure.
#2 Married Men & Couples seeking to Build or Re-Build Lasting Attraction
through mastery of Conscious Coupling skills
#3 Single Men motivated to learn how to create Mutually Respectful Sexual
Friendships that lead to lasting loyalty.
#4 Progressive Couples seeking guidance in Managing a Peaceful Divorce
i.e. the Conscious Un-Coupling Process
All of this is accomplished first and foremost through Male Empowerment
via a man’s current journey with women, creating hope for the future.