Do great lovers focus on the woman cumming first?

Do great lovers focus on the woman cumming first?

Do great lovers focus on their woman cumming first?

Yeah not so much…

Many nice guys that claim “Giver” status, end up turning women off sexually due to them being in their head about her having to climax first. 

This becomes approval seeking and pressure on her at some point. What she wants is REAL presence which equals minding your own damn business i.e. your own pleasure (in your body NOT your mind). If you focus on being fully there (in your cock NOT your mind) and your own masculine pleasure (in your body NOT your mind) then you give her permission to let down her guard which will lead to a flow of orgasmic energy through the whole body once the vaginal vault is clear of emotional build up.

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THIS is the purpose of having a penis (releasing woman from their tensions and emotional build up with your PRO-creation power) and making babies (the ultimate potential for pro-creation energy to express) is secondary. Most of us were conceived in an unconscious biology driven way so even though a whole new human was created (pretty damn god like) if it was not also a Next Level Sex experience than it was not the Ultimate potential. 

The ejaculation type of orgasm is biology driven but Next Level Sex must be consciously chosen and developed. If you choose NOT to learn about this next stage in your sexual development as a man (staying stuck in your head), then your partner will be doomed to unfulfilling sex as long as she is with you. Women cannot achieve much beyond a clitoral fertilized climax (very masculine) without male energy and a choice on her partners part to learn to be present which will lead her to opening fully to her potential.

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With SO many men not interested in learning how to move beyond their biology the world is full of frustrated, bitching women dying for a good fuck. Women will intuit sooner than men “there HAS to be something more than this” and begin to withdraw from unfulfilling sex altogether. 

Guys, if you are just doing biology driven sex and not educating yourself and evolving your masculinity, then the risks for her to have sex with you (messy panties all day, yeast infections, energy drain, possible pregnancy, having to wash the sheets, reinforcing your unconsciousness in other areas of life thus impacting her sense of security etc) begin to out-weigh the benefits at some point. I guara-mutha-f-n-tee it.

I teach practices that help a man become naturally inclined to this way of being with him-self and with women, in bed and out.

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Pre-view the Intro to Conscious Sexuality lessons here >>>> Mastery for Motivated Men 

and learn Change Her Mood, NOT Her Mind before you give any attention to sex techniques.

 

Michelle Terrell has been a health and wellness coach since 1995. In those years she collected data and the real life testimonials of thousands of good men who were feeling lost and confused in their love lives. Her workshop students dubbed her The Pistol Whip Hippie because her teaching/coaching style is irreverent, in your face and radically honest (the Pistol Whip part) with the follow up being supportive, nurturing awakened energy (the Hippie part) that inspires men to strive to be their very best.

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